02 September 2015

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Now that we have been home for a few days, we are settling into sleeping in our own beds, grocery shopping (diving into our first Whole 30, details for another post) and generally just getting back into the swing of things. Oliver is ready for school...he is pushing my buttons and I really think that we are both ready to back into the routine school and friends and playing and learning. It has been super hot so we have been seeking refuge indoors, like going to the library and tucking into a bunch of books or going to the mall to shop for duds for school. Huck continues to be a good boy but for the past few days the two boys have been bouncing off of eachother; when one is happy, the other is cranky and vice versa. It has made for some long days.




31 August 2015

The Fourth Trimester

With Huck being 15 weeks old. (Well really, 3 months.. Eventually we have to start going by months, don't we?) I thought I'd share my thoughts on how we made it through the first 3 months since they are usually given such a bad rep, and also because I am now an expert.
(That was a joke)  First of all have you heard of the concept of "The Fourth Trimester" of pregnancy? The idea behind this is that babies are still going through major developments that would ideally be taking place inside a protective womb. However, due to the size constraints, Mother Nature (thankfully) thought it a better idea for us to have these babies for around 40 (ish) weeks in-utero. And hence, babies in their first 3 months want/yearn/need to feel like they would if they were still in the comfort of a womb. 

Our fourth trimester has since ended so I thought I'd share how it went.

Routine, shmootine.

We actually love a good routine in our house but for those first few weeks, forget about it. It is safe to say we are a 'fly by the seat of your pants' for those first weeks. In reality it would be great to know when and for how long Huck would sleep or when and how much he would like to eat but that is just not how it goes, at least for us. Around the second month I started feeling like I could understand a semblance of a schedule but even today we are still winging it for the most part in terms of napping. Although we are starting to get the basic routine down for a bedtime; diaper, jammies, bottle, bed (all done in his room, dimly light). And then Henry generally sleeps for 6 hours straight which for us is amazing after Oliver who never slept more than 3 hours in a row until he was about 11 months old. 

Babies love to be held.

And hold him, we do! I enjoy wearing Huck in a ring sling and a Solly baby wrap. If he is really cranky it is my go to and it almost always calms him down. He stills loves to snuggle on our chests and he most definitely gets picked up when he cries. I love holding him close and just breathing him in. That sweet baby smell is amazing.

That being said Huck sleeps in his crib, in his room.

Now this is just works best for us with Huck. Many people go about sleeping arrangements differently for those first few weeks but to be honest, Huck was a loud, grunty baby and I had a really hard time sleeping with him next to me in a bassinet. 

Take the baby with you.

They are small, portable, like to sleep a good amount so go out with them! Yes, sometimes it feels a bit messy and yes, you may sweat a bit more but trust me going anywhere with a three month old or younger is way easier than traveling or going to a museum, restaurant, etc with an older baby. Soak in the time where you can sit at a coffee shop and chat with a friend or in my case my older son without too much interruption. 

Talk to them. Read to them.

I am a strong believer in talking to your babies in a normal voice.  We often have to remind Oliver to talk to Huck normally or he will not know who he is.  I also read to my babies. I read The Art Newspaper to Oliver and now Huck listens to the chapter books we read to Oliver, currently we are reading The Wonderful Wizard of Oz.  But really it does not matter what you read to them, just read aloud, heck some of my favourites is to read a recipe aloud before I make it. 

These 3 months have just flown by. I have learnt so much from my boy and everytime I look at him and how wonderfully he's growing, I realize that Matt and I... We've got this. It is in no way, shape or form the "correct" way to raise a child, but it's our way and it works (for us).


x

29 August 2015

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We are home from our time in Michigan. And what a lovely time we had. I have a bunch of pictures and tales to tell but for now I have a warm snuggly baby snoozing on my chest and typing one handed is not an easy feat. So I leave you with a sweet picture of my sleepy big boy after boogie boarding all morning in the Lake Michigan waves and my fuzzy headed littlest who grew leaps and bounds while we were away.



19 August 2015

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Water blasters and post tub snuggles. 

We are doing our best to soak in as much vacation time as possible here in Michigan. Even as the wind and rain has blown through over the past couple of days we are trying to slow down and enjoy our family time before the crush of school and the nip of the fall comes to Boston. Being at the Little Cottage each summer is such a treat and I am so glad that we are able to share it with our friends and family. 


14 August 2015

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We have arrived at the cottage in Michigan and we are already running around with family, swimming and generally enjoying the breeze and familiarity of our "happy place". 

09 August 2015

#FindtheGirlsIntheNegatives

Seeing as we are heading out next week to Michigan for our family vacation I wanted to make sure I posted this amazing mystery before I go.  Have you heard about the mystery of photographer, Megan Abell who found medium format negatives at a thrift store and decided to purchase them and develop them? Well, what she found were these hauntingly beautiful images of women from about the 1950's wading into churning surf with the sun setting over the water. Maybe they stuck with me because it feels like it could be something from the shores of Lake Michigan. I could even envision my grandmother wearing a similar dress and wading out to get a better view of the sunset. I would love to see this mystery solved and learn more about the women in the pictures as well as the person behind the lens. 

So the quest is on to #FindtheGirlsIntheNegatives.







05 August 2015

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Two boys, the same bucket. Oliver was being very silly on a humid, hot afternoon on the patio. And Huck being sweet, cute and holding his own little head up in a tubby.